Shan's Burstday Dinner at Xenri

面具-安七炫

Fate. Such an easy word and yet it made such a big impact on our lives. It's how we say we don't believe in fate and yet we're subjected to it. It's how we say we determine our own fate and yet we walk down the path being laid before us. How can something so abstract and divine but able to changes our lives completely. A story that was told recently: A and B met each other through a web portal about 2 years ago. They exchanged contacts and have been responding to each other on a fixed interval for the past few years. Busy in their own world, they maintained their communication platonic and concentrated on strengthening on what they have built. After 2 years of communications and understanding, they decided that it was time to meet and face the reality world. Feelings developed and they realized after so many years, maybe they are the one for each other. But, reality struck and circumstances surfaces. B is leaving the country soon, and they have only a certain period to cherish each other. Isn't it ironic how we are being arranged in such a manner? Another story being told recently: C and D has been together for the past 3 to 4 years. They have been staying together. When first started, they have nothing. Together, they saved money. And they bought a car together with the money. Fast forward a few years later, C realized that after saving money together and having a better life, D was fooling around outside. Heartbroken, they broke up. Imagine living together with someone for the past few years only to realize that they are not the one. Such a impact and lesson learnt. It's all in a simple word that everyone understand but doesn't know how to explain: Fate.

不，完美- 李玖哲

A friend once said that, why does it seems that people only look on the ulterior characteristics in potential partners? Does it have to be the same age, same religion, same race or same area of expertise in order for both to be compatible and to be potential couple? Does it matter that the girl is older than the guy? Does it matter that the both are not from the same race? Or will it be a hindrance when both are not working in the same field? We are just part of the society after all, afraid of doing something out of the niche, trying hard to fit in the norm not realizing that we have closed off something that might be us inside. We are afraid of waiting for too long and looking deep into the person that we jump into the first person that is compatible on the outer qualities without looking on the inner qualities. We believe that once the outer shells is compatible, the inner jewel is just something to compromise and to polish, without knowing that even the inner jewel need to be found first from sand before being polished. We know that even if it doesn't work out, there's always other people out there. But what we fail to realize is that, the true sparkling pearl is already polished but hidden among the sands. What we have to do, is just to dig in a little deeper, look wider, and search more heartily. Does it mean that all of us are shallow even the higher our education is? Well, this is just a part of the confinement of the society after all and we are in the end, a member of the community trying to survive is the competitive world out there.

Alby's 21st Bday

蔡健雅-失忆症

Greg Kimble & David Hernandez - Hold On

假想敌-蔡健雅

Save Me - Jordin Sparks

What's your personality love style?

You desire a love that will last forever. You are quite serious about finding this type of love, and that's why you think carefully about the men that you meet before deciding whether you could really love them. You don't just develop a crush on someone overnight: you look at a person's personality and other aspects of their life before deciding to form an attachment. If a guy doesn't meet your expectations, you would rather be alone. Your love has to be perfect. Be careful though, you could be missing out on some worthy relationships because your standards are so high.

Strong Enough - Stacie Orrico

Another test:
The Real You

1. You are a very serious person. You tend to be quiet and well behaved, and you don't have a great deal of self-confidence. You prefer to be alone rather than with friends and that could make you a little less interesting to certain types of guys. You are very attractive in an individual kind of way, and this means it can take people a little while to get to like you.
2. You really care about other people's feelings and are quite serious about the issues that affect your life. You are sincere, and your concern for the well-being of others makes many people want to be your friend.
3. You are a bright, cheerful and bubbly person. You are thoughtful and considerate, and like to have fun. Everybody feels comfortable around you because of your pleasant nature. When you walk into a room, people's eyes are likely to be drawn to you because of your charm.
4. Your peers think of you as a fun person, but sometimes you can be a little irresponsible. You can be somewhat childish, and can try to ignore the fact that you will one day need to really grow up and be a mature adult! Perhaps you could start reading good books; they might help you look at the world in a different light. You do want to be taken seriously, right?<---NOT TRUE!!!LOLz
   
5. Your boyfriend/girlfriend believes that you are a strong and independent person. Your confidence and cheerfulness make you an attractive person to be around, but sometimes you need to pay more attention to what other people, including your boyfriend, are thinking

Other Side Of The World - KT Tunstall

Check this website out. I found out that it's pretty accurate. Try it and tell me? Hehe.
http://www.quizbox.com/personality/test82.aspx

Your view on yourself:

You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.

The seriousness of your love:

You are very serious about relationships and aren't interested in wasting time with people you don't really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love.

Your views on education

Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.

The right job for you:

You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:

You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.

What are you most afraid of:

You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.

Who is your true self:

You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.

神秘嘉宾-林宥嘉

David is from a small village in a small state with no entertainment and the only entertainment was to derive some from the nature itself. One day, David decide to move to a large metropolitan to get a better life. So, he made the move and arrive in the metropolis soon after. When he is in the metropolis, he found that the people are living a much better life. They are moving in a much faster pace, earning much more money than in the village, and have a better lifestyle. As David starts to adapt to living in the metropolis, he soon got to know people and was introduced into the nightlife of the city. The dazzling nightlife and the ecstasy from this lifestyle attracted him alot and he was hooked on thereafter. As time progresses, he felt it has gotten stale and was looking for more excitement. This time, he was introduced to drugs to achieve higher pleasure of life and to be promoted into the higher standard of life. Well, what is there to say anymore. Once introduced to drugs, there was no turning back to everything. He got addicted and keep asking for more and more. But the consequences was bad. Soon, he was abandoned and having to live aimlessly in life, with every penny spent on drugs and any more money that he earned was spent on drugs too. The addiction provide no turning back into his old lifestyle and he ended up being another rotten person who stumbled on the dark lifestyle of the city. Some things in life, are like drugs; being an addiction and provides no turning back once we step into it. To resist the temptation and remain steadfast, is not easy indeed.

Ugly-Sugababes

I despise people who likes to fake but fakes poorly. Wants to pretend something that they are not, but end up revealing the true nature to the public. How stupid and contradicting is that. Being an outsider, I have no rights to comment on how people run their lives nor do I have the right to judge. Bystanders will only stand by the pavement and watch as the movie unfolds itself to the public. From now on, let's just zip up the mouth and let nature flow on it's own course.

Energy - Keri Hilson

I'm actually a really really shy and reserved person. If I can, I want to zip up my mouth, talk less and just completely listen to a conversation. But that would make me a non-existent person. Alot of times, I would really rather be left alone and just do my own stuff in complete silence and in my own world. But sometimes I just don't have that privilege. I don't like to talk to strangers unless it's necessary to do so. I don't like to talk to person that I barely knew cause I find it unnecessary to do so. I find it hard to tell my emotions to others. I find it hard to tell others what I think. I don't really care whether others will understand what I'm thinking or what I'm saying cause in the end, I know that they won't. I would really want to live in a reclusive world but it's not possible cause human survives on other humans as well.